Have you ever took the time to notice people when they smile at you? Have you ever wondered if the smile was a genuine smile or a fake smile? Well, I have been observing for years now and can definitely tell the difference. And, I feel that I must share this distinction with you so that you, too, will be able to distinguish the two.
When a person smiles at a comment or just at your presence, watch that smile and time it! Yes, use a stopwatch if you must. If the smile disappears within a nano second, IT IS A FAKE SMILE! Genuine smiles are seen from the eyes. The eyes smile too. Many people don’t understand that. If your heart is genuine, when you smile, your eyes will smile too.
Why would people bother giving a fake smile? Its a facade created to mask their true feelings. The heart can not lie so you can instantly see when a smile is genuine. True smiles can last up to 60 seconds or longer. Where fake smiles disappear almost instantly.
All in all, you want to know who is real and who is fake! The distinction further enhances your effectiveness in communication. For example, if the person is phony, you know to avoid that person, period. Come on, life is too short for the foolishness. Why would you want to be a fake and phony individual.